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Have You Ever Been Heartbroken?’
Hi there,
Heartbreak doesn’t care if you’re a CEO. It can turn the most put-together person into a crybaby. Suddenly, every song is about them, every Snapchat memory stings, and you start questioning your sanity and choices.
Did you hear about Karolína Muchová, the world No. 13 tennis player who broke down in tears after spotting her ex-boyfriend in the crowd during her US Open match? That’s what heartbreak could do to you. It sneaks up mid-game, mid-life, and shakes you to your core.
There’s no hard and fast rule to heal. You can block, delete, unfollow, curse their existence. But the pain lingers. How then do you get over a heartbreak? Sticking to your daily routine… Until one morning you realise it doesn’t hurt anymore.
If this is where you’re, choose to live a little this weekend through one or more of these events.
Friday
 | 1. ORIJINAL NITE: LAGOS Sinatra Place, Ogba, Ikeja | 6:00 PM | Free Long week? Orijinal Nite is the low-stress, high-vibe hangout you need. Good music, good people, and the perfect excuse to step away from your usual Friday routine. |
 | 2. SIP ’N’ MIX La Tarverna, VI | 7:00 PM | ₦8,740 It’s hard to beat a night of shaking up cocktails and swapping stories. Bring a friend, or make one while mixing. |
 | 3. SUNSET AT AMAH EPISODE IX – ORIGIN OF HOUSE Eleganza House, Lagos Island | 5:00 PM | ₦13,060 House beats, city lights, and that magic Lagos sunset. Come for the music, stay for the atmosphere that makes you forget everything else exists. |
 | 4. GAMES & GIGGLES 251A Sapara Williams, VI | 6:00 PM | ₦16,500 A night of playful competition, quick laughs, and plenty of “I can’t believe you just did that” moments👀. Perfect for groups or even solo players ready to mingle. |
 | 5. ECHO The Vault Social House, VI | 10:00 PM | ₦10,900 If your Friday night needs a soundtrack, ECHO delivers. Smooth energy, heavy-base beats, and a crowd that knows how to make every hour feel like golden hour. |
 | 6. JOY OF MUSIC AFRICA (JOMA) 2025 Freedom Park, Lagos Island | 6:00 PM | Free An evening of pure sound and culture. Let the live performances pull you in and set the tone for a weekend worth remembering. |
 | 7. THE RNB PARTY Tribe Lagos, VI | 8:00 PM | Free or Table for 5 Reservations for ₦150,000 A celebration of smooth grooves and sing-along favourites. Whether you’re on the dance floor or vibing with a drink in hand, it’s R&B all night long from different eras. |
SATURDAY
 | 8. THE NOLLY TRIVIA: SEPTEMBER EDITION Locale, VI | 4:00 PM | ₦7,450 For Nollywood lovers and competitive spirits, this is your time to shine. Expect movie quotes, plot twists, and that one friend who swears they know every actor’s full name. |
 | 9. HOME ADVANTAGE COOKOUT Kernel Park, Surulere | 11:00 AM | Free |
 | 10. NIGHT SHIFT 355 Lounge, Ikeja | 9:00 PM | Free When the city winds down, Night Shift clocks in. Late-night vibes, music that keeps you moving, and no pressure to call it an early one. |
 | 11. ART THERAPY – BUILDING BLOCK THERAPY KRATES, Lekki Phase 1 | 1:00 PM | ₦16,300 Sometimes the best way to unwind is with your hands, your imagination, and zero rules. Build, create, and leave with something uniquely yours. |
 | 12. ELEMENT HOUSE Livespot Entertarium, Lekki | 11:00 PM | ₦15,000 House music meets Lagos energy for a night of non-stop rhythm. Come ready to lose track of time. Get Tickets |
 | 13. OLD SCHOOL PARTY BLXCK Lagos, Yaba | 8:00 PM | ₦5,000 From Y2K bangers to throwback dance moves, this is your license to be unapologetically nostalgic all night long. Get Tickets |
 | 14. SILENT BREW PARTY Bature Brewery, VI | 7:00 PM | ₦6,000 Pick your channel, sip your drink, and let the beats flow. Lagos’ favourite silent disco meets craft beer heaven. |
SUNDAY
 | 15. DAY BREEZE Maison Fahrenheit Rooftop, VI | 2:00 PM | ₦10,000 Skyline views, cool drinks, and that perfect golden-hour light for squad photos. If Sunday was made for anything, it’s this. |
 | 16. PLANTAIN HOUSE PARTY The House Lagos, VI | 3:00 PM | Pay What You Can It’s plantain in every form, plus music, games, and the atmosphere that feels like you’re chilling in your friend’s big, beautiful backyard. |
Not In Lagos? Check These Out
 | 1. DISTRICT 69 – THE FOURTH AMENDMENT Vibe by Ann’s, Wuse 2 | Friday 9:00 PM | ₦7,660 A night of high-energy beats, electric lights, and that unmistakable District 69 buzz. If you know, you know; if you don’t, this is the one to start with. |
 | 2. AREA51 – ASTRO WAHALA The Branch, Garki | Saturday, 8:00 PM | ₦7,000 An intergalactic party on Earth. Think Afrobeats, futuristic vibes, and Abuja’s finest crowd. Dress for the theme or just come ready to dance. |
 | 3. OFTHEBUJ X THE YAARD: THE AFROBEATS EXPERIENCE The Yaard, Jabi | Sunday, 8:00 PM | ₦5,500 Live music, DJs, and that feel-good energy you only get when Afrobeats is front and center. Perfect for linking up with friends and making new ones. |
It might seem impossible now, but dressing up and stepping out this weekend could be the first step toward getting over your heartbreak.
I hope to see you outside,
Southpaw.